Have you messed things up in a friendship? Have you offended someone? Are you guilty of having hurt someone?
The website Peacemaker.net has provided a short list of seven things to include when you go to confess/repent:
1. Address everyone involved (All those whom you affected)
2. Avoid if, but, and maybe (Do not try to excuse your wrongs)
3. Admit specifically (Both attitudes and actions)
4. Acknowledge the hurt (Express sorrow for hurting someone)
5. Accept the consequences (Such as making restitution)
6. Alter your behavior (Change your attitudes and actions)
7. Ask for forgiveness
I have long been thankful for the book that Ken Sande wrote, and from which this list comes from:
